Cheating Wife due to Your Sexual Handicap and Premature Ejaculation.

Marriage Sexual problems are common in many relationships. This is Mr Andy38. He wrote in Talk About Marriage forum about his problem. He is suffering from his sexual handicap due to premature ejaculation and that lead to her wife cheat on him. Here is summary of what he wrote:

My wife is cheating on me because of my handicap.

 

I’m a 38 y/o man with a wife and two kids (girl and boy, ages 8 and 3, one hers, and one ours). We’ve been married for just over four years. We have had been trying to have a baby since we got married, but I have a disability (Cerebral Palsy), and suffer from retrograde ejaculation, long sperm count, motility issues, etc (as well as premature ejaculation). Plus, the CP prevents me from thrusting my hips very quickly or for any real duration. We went through hell and back trying to conceive (TTC), but it was very slow going at first. My CP and related health issues kept getting in the way. I remember how truly humiliated I was after learning that I had failed the sperm penetration SPA (hamster) test. It was especially difficult because our fertility doctor and her OB/GYN were both female. I remember not even being able to look any of the three ladies (my wife or the two doctors) in the eye. It was horrible. In fact, her GYN sensed must have sensed my pain, because she gave me a tight hug as we left.

 

 

While we truly love each other very much, our sex life has suffered greatly. IVF treatment has been a total failure. Flashing back to the early part of our marriage, the first time we ever made love (on our honeymoon), I lasted less than 30 seconds. What’s more, my wife didn’t even know I climaxed. When I told her I was “finished” already, at first she didn’t believe me, especially since there were only a few drops of semen in her vagina. At first, she was really nice about it and just laughed it off as post-wedding jitters……………………….

………………………………. I discovered that she was actually using this bathroom time to masturbate herself to orgasm. I was devastated. When I confronted her on the issue, she just started laughing and walked away saying that I wouldn’t understand…………………

She doesn’t deny herself to me,…………………… she often lets me have a “quickie” with her in the mornings before she and I go to work……………………She once told me that I was the first man she’d “been with” where she never has to “rinse out” or “clean up” or anything like that………………… she rarely gets fully undressed any more. I almost get the feeling that she doesn’t want me to see her fully nude any more……………………

 

 

She never told me that she thought she might be pregnant. So, I had a feeling she might be straying. So I setup a hidden webcam in our bedroom to prove me wrong. It is a wireless HD webcam…………………..

I just recently caught her in the act on video. Without being too terribly graphic, let’s just say that they both had a lot of fun. They were both completely nude, he was on top, and they did not use a condom……………….. looks like penetration to ejaculation for him took just over 6 minutes, and he was thrusting his hips quite fast (at least compared to me). …………………. I am still personally quite stunned. I seriously did not know that someone could move their hips that fast and last that long………………… I could also hear her moan three separate times during the act. She’s NEVER moaned with me. NOT EVER. Perhaps they were orgasms? I don’t know….>> Read more here<<

Let’s first try to understand what causes premature ejaculation to occur.  This condition could be brought on from many varying factors which can be either biological or psychological origin.  Here are some psychological issues.  Their bodies may be used to rushing to climax for fear of being caught, followed by feelings of guilt.  Anxiety could also be at the root of the problem.   It could be anxiety about performance or it could be anxiety over something non sexual.

 

 

Treatment will vary depending on the severity.  Some doctors may recommend him to masturbate a couple of hours before intercourse.  Another recommendation could be for you to engage in other sexual activities, such as him performing oral on you, to alleviate some performance anxiety.  Don’t be alarmed if an anti depressant is prescribed.  Sometimes delayed ejaculation is a side effect.  Some people have found desensitizing creams to be helpful while others have found them a hindrance by numbing the female genitals as well.  The cream is supposed to be wiped off before intercourse but the penis can still cause a numbing effect on whatever it comes in contact with.

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